Friday, June 20, 2008

Freaks & Geeks!


Ahh! So, I love my new job and the people I work with are, on the most part, cool. However, there are those freaks and geeks sprinkled in there and naturally some of them are of the male persuasion. Now, you may be thinking where is she taking this? Well, one of those male freaks and geeks seems to have the impression that he has a chance with me. I know, I know I sound like a total bee-och...but seriously this guy is so NOT cute, he's not even ok...he's just ...eek. Mind you, yes he's a funny individual and very nice but there this thing called chemistry. And there is NO chemistry for me!!!

And in case you're thinking I'm shallow because I don't like or date ugly people that is completely false because I have liked less than beautiful people. Let me just say there was a certain kiwi out there I was super into and he wasn't exactly a GQ model, but his humor and talent won me over. But this guy, he's a gamer and he's a plumper version of George Costanza (Seinfeld) but with the same amount of hair and a huge mole on his face...mo-lay, mo-lay. Seriously he is so the opposite of everything I would ever be in to.

So what is it? Do I have a sign that says FREAKS & GEEKS NEED ONLY APPLY!! Am I hideous and none of you are telling me the truth straight up? Because you know if that were the case for any of you out there, I would tell you...so if this is the case...someone tell me!! I'm not sure what I can do to solve that problem, but I can always save up for plastic surgery and amend it that way...lol. No, but for reals...why can't normal decent looking guys be into me?

I mean, I guess I'm flattered...but he continues to try to ask me out when I've made it clear plenty of times that I'm not interested. The guy is killin' me...and I don't want to be rude but I also don't want to lead him on. I knew I should have never asked him about his cat (yeah he's male and single and has a cat...weird) but I did because I was curious about his cat because I heart cats...not nerds...lol, just kidding. Anyways...freaks and geeks must be my destiny...blah!

7 comments:

Crystal said...

lol! First off, that photo of "George" is so disturbing.
Secondly, I think you should continue to be a kind person toward this guy. It was your kindness that made your hot self more approachable than other possibly hot-but-rude women this guy encounters.
If you are consistently nice to him, like you are to everyone equally, he may realize that you are just very nice and not flirting with him.
I recall running into this problem numerous times because I like to be equally nice to many people. Unfortunately too many men got the impression that I was picking up on them (uh, since when did "hello" turn into "I want your body" I'll never know, but whatevs.)
I took it in stride. I didn't want to shut off my niceness just because some people misconstrue my intentions.
Good luck. Perhaps the man of your dreams is secretly watching you and wondering if you're as nice to everyone else as you are to moley cat man.
:)

N for Fila said...

LOL thanks Crys...you're right and I am continuing to be nice I just hope one day a guy I would be interested comes to notice me and not just moley cat men...LOL

Maleina said...

Well I didn't want to be the one to tell you...LOL
You are a beautiful wonderful person who many people molly or not will be attracted to just deal! Love ya

Maleina said...

LOL i wonder who that certain kiwi is? he's a blind stupid kiwi. i agree with crys...maybe mo-lay has a hot friend. and there's nothing shallow about any of this:)HAHAHA

angie said...

hahaha...that last post from mj was actually me. i forgot that i was signed in as her. that's hilarious

Crystal said...

hahah! Ange-rah.

Xena said...

Nila,
Wow - it's been a while since I checked all of the blogs I like - and this post made me laugh! You are beautiful - seriously! It reminded me of how the only boys who were attracted to me when I was single were guys with disabilities. Then miracle of miracles I met your brother! You will have a miracle someday too, it's just in the Lord's timing. I know that's not always a comforting thought.